For me, before reading this book, my perception of what being an ungettable girl was, was this idea of an absolute perfect woman that has everything together where the bar is raised so high.
But that’s really just unattainable. It’s very overwhelming and hard to achieve.
But something I love that Chris points out in his book is he lists twelve characteristics of what being ungettable looks like but he goes on to say that you truly only need to be a master of three or four categories to Gabe considered ungettable.
His philosophy is that if you master two or three you’re going to have a chain reaction and the other qualities will fall into place.